Do I need to be in the room for her to see it?
I set up a chatroom which I shared exclusively with my wife (as pictured below), exited the room, then went over and watched as she went to her Hubzilla channel (for which the Chat app has
been enabled) and saw nothing to indicate that there was a chatroom for her to join. Do I have to be in
the chatroom for her to see it and join it? That is, to me, somewhat counter-intuitive but I imagine it might be true of a federated chatroom. I'd simply test this with her -- go into the chatroom and see if it becomes visible to her -- except she's gone out for a walk to clear her head after certain recent, um, frustrations.